Posted by NCWayne on November 26, 2009 at 23:58:17 from (173.188.168.35):
To those that responded to my post below with something constructive to say I offer up a hearfelt THANK YOU. It may sound bad to say but from some of the posts at least I know we aren't alone in dealing with a mess like this. I feel sorry for those others that are in the same boat and wish them well.
It was alot of reading, just like getting through my post was, but I did read all of the responses. I won't go over everything recommendation but I can tell you as I read them I ticked off each one as to things we have done and, believe it or not, EVERYTHING suggested has been covered many many times.....From the documentation (pages and pages, email after email), to what others have seen at the visits, to things the therapist has said and done, to things HIS lawyer has told us concerning lies he was told by the guy (things said in the spirit of working things out outside the courtroom that backfired), etc etc etc. The fact we have all of this stuff and are still going through this mess is the main thing making all of this soooo damm frustrating for my wife and I.
Animosity aside ALL we have asked of the guy is to do is listen to "his daughter" and allow her to form the relationship on her own terms. When he has been backed off by 'force'and the pressure to do things with him is diminished she has no problems wanting to get to call him and get to know him, after all he is her biological father. When he forces the issue is when she feels her 'real' family (me and her Mom) is being threatened. Basically the harder he forces the issue the more she feels he wants to take her from her family. That is the main reason for the kicking pics, etc. That said, please don't misunderstand that part, this guy has never physically abused her, in fact he has never been allowed to be alone with her. I think I made things clear the first visit after court what would happen if something like this were to happen, the same way her grandfather did me when her mom and I got married.............Ok, enough said. I hope everybody had a great Thanksgiving and thanks again for the replies...just wish someone had known a good lawyer........
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