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Re: Need help and/or advice please---kinda long


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Posted by trucker40 on November 26, 2009 at 07:26:09 from (69.151.56.244):

In Reply to: Need help and/or advice please---kinda long posted by NCWayne on November 26, 2009 at 03:44:53:

You might get a lawyer to work for nothing if you were in prison for killing somebody and it was obvious that you didnt do it.One of the things thats been beat up with all thats gone on with our country is your rights.In this case you dont have any.Plus you could find yourself in jail if you are interfering with his visitation,and it sounds like you are even though you say you arent.Also lawyers are a bunch of crooks.If what you say is true,but even writing it yourself I know there is another side to this story,and from his perspective it probably is not so good on you.It doesnt really matter what you think you are doing because what is supposed to be happening is what the Judge said to do.That means that whatever you say is mostly irrelevant.If you get in court,and you didnt obey any of the court order,like you say you can go to jail for contempt of court.You could very well do that if you argue with the Judge,lawyer or not.
The whole thing is a mess,you most likely wont get any help.A few years ago the county where I had to go to court for the same thing on the other side had over a million cases to deal with.I dont know how many lawyers were in that county but no possible way that they could handle that many cases.Plus lawyers dont even like to mess with cases like that,and your story is why.If what you say about the therapist deal is true,your lawyer shouldnt have allowed that in the first place.Im not saying a therapist isnt needed,but what you have is leverage against your wife with this therapist.Anyway Im not a lawyer.You dont want a judge deciding your life for you,but unfortunately that is what your wife has to do.
You dont sound like a bad guy,but this is not your argument,fight or anything to do with you or what you want.Actually your best bet is to pay a lawyer and maybe make a suggestion or 2 but keep your nose out of it.You have the wrong idea if you think you can manipulate any part of it,and you will stir up something you cant handle,which is actually what it sounds like has happened.Whatever laws in the State are is how its going to get handled.Also put yourself on the other side.How would you like to be a Judge in your case?I know what you think you are,but you really are way better off to stay out of it and pay a lawyer.Unfortunately thats all you can do.You might talk to a lawyer,that doesnt cost anything most of the time.However it doesnt help much either.It kind of sounds like the lawyer you did have wasnt very good,or you went in there and told him what you were going to do,and he overcharged his way out of your mess.However I dont know,but what Im saying doesnt cost you anything.Remember,you dont have any say,the Judge does.It rips your guts out I know,but you dont have any say,or very little.Now you think you know stuff,but it doesnt matter because unless you get a lawyer to present it,you may as well be ignorant.I mean it sounds like you have a good idea of whats going on,but to get it to go any way you want it to,you will have to pay a lawyer to get it considered.Yeah its expensive,and you wont get any help most likely.I know you think you are doing a good thing,but actually you could be the biggest part of the problem.Thats what it sounds like to me from what you wrote.


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