Well,if he is hanging himself,stand back and let him do it!You know they called him a dumb@ss in chambers,but what did they call you in chambers,I bet its a good chance you are a dumber @ss to them?You can be there with your wife,but your problems start when you start saying things or acting mad.They are watching you.I dont know your state laws,but in my state the child support has nothing at all to do with visitation.I dont know about other states,but I dont think whether or not a father pays child support will keep them from seeing their kid in any state or not,probably not.Cops might use that as an excuse to arrest him,but its for contempt of court,not paying child support.Its not illegal to owe money in The United States and thats good.Also dont forget that Cops could just as easily arrest you if you arent following the judges orders.The judge will have no sympathy for you or your wife on this.I have seen many times,a judge throw a woman in jail for arguing with him and refusing to do what she was told,and you just knew she was wrong,but she was going to tell the judge off.It doesnt work.Also the court gets a lot worse,and you are a lot madder,when youve been fired for being thrown in jail,or your wife,and then you really need a lawyer worse than now.Also you throw him in jail,dumb@ss or not,he will be mad when he gets out.You wont get anything done after that,except maybe punched out,so you better think about throwing him in jail.Also they arent going to throw him in jail because of what you say,the judge does it.It may sound like they are going to,but they dont always throw a guy in jail if he is working.They will if he goes crazy or something,but any time you have cops and a judge in your life,its not good for you and your family.Way better to do as much as you can without a court,sometimes its not possible though.Obviously this guy thinks he is going to manipulate things himself.Thats not good for him,but it could turn out good for you.Your best course is to not interfere and not say anything until you have to.Yeah you want to take care of your family,and the best thing to do is go with what the judge says to do,keep your nose out of it.It actually sounds like this guy is damaging himself.Of course he will blame you for that too.You arent in a good spot.It wont do you any good to make it worse on this guy.Sure you want whats best for your family.Like it or not,this guy is kind of your family too.So whats best for him?Sounds like you thought about it,but you arent exactly in a position legally to pull many strings.It will rip your guts out if you go at it wrong.You can think you are doing everything so good,but in the judges eyes you are a problem too.The judges responsibility is to the Mom,Dad and child.Nothing at all to you,or at the most very little.Sounds like this guy is doing more damage to himself than you can to him,and while its like that set back and enjoy.It could be your turn in the barrel next if the judge gets mad at you.Then you get madder,do something,and could be in just as bad of a shape as him.How does any of that help your family?It doesnt.You only can get stuff done if you have a lawyer.A Pro Bono lawyer for that kind of stuff,well I havent ever seen it.I know I havent seen everything Im sure,but I kind of think that is something that doesnt happen in family law.That doesnt mean there isnt some way to get help,but you are probably going to have to pay your way through this.
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