Re: 40 yr class reunion

Posted by buickanddeere on August 01, 2015 at 16:42:26 from (209.240.120.2):

In Reply to: 40 yr class reunion posted by Rich_WI on August 01, 2015 at 16:36:21:

Rich_WI said: (quoted from post at 19:36:21 08/01/15) buickanddeere said: (quoted from post at 16:42:36 08/01/15) Hazard to guess just how much I care about a small close minded person's opinion like yours?[/quote:c5e8fbd004] Nobody cares what you think, don't you get it yet? buickanddeere said: (quoted from post at 16:42:36 08/01/15) You worry too much about what other people think. I don't care what others think and I made that quite clear above in my explanation of why I don't go to reunions. I just don't care. I know that bothers you because people like me simply don't show up when you are busting with desire to try to do what you could never do back in high school, actually attempt to be normal and a part of the group. Guess what buddy, you are not either and people like me simply don't care to be around people like you. Do you get it yet? [quote:c5e8fbd004="buickanddeere"](quoted from post at 16:42:36 08/01/15) Are you so conceited to think that you are on the forefront of everybody Else's minds. Im not conceited in the least. I have no illusions that I am in the forefront of anybody's mind, in fact Im sure I occupy a similar space with my old classmates as they do in my mind (basically nowhere). I'm quite sure they rarely, if ever, think about me which is the same as I do about them. Like I said, the people I cared about I still see and talk to. Why would I want to go see people I didn't ever talk to or like? I know why you do it, desperately trying to turn back time and somehow make yourself relevant but the sad fact is, it don't work. Did you know that as soon as you walk away, everybody in the group gives each other that knowing look? Do you know what look Im talking about? Of course not because you never had (and still don't) have any friends to exchange that look with. Well let me explain it to you, ah forget it, you just wont ever understand it or have the need to use it (because its a non verbal cue typically used with friends). Face it, even on the internet with printed words rather than spoken exchanges, you still just don't get it and don't fit in. I feel sorry for you, I really do but in the end there is nothing I can do for you because you do it to yourself. Its your actions, nobody else's, that cause you to be the outcast. While Im sure you have a great time every 10 years, maybe even every 5 when you get to see people that really don't care about you, others in your class actually like each other an see each other weekly. Think about it....

Given the length, detail and passion in your continuing post. These issues mean a great deal to you. I wish you the best working them out. In particular the "don't and didn't". Have you counted how many times you used such negativity? You will be happier after coping with such.

This post was edited by buickanddeere at 16:45:25 08/01/15.

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• Re: 40 yr class reunion Rich_WI 17:05:17 08/01/15 (0)

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