I don't know anything about the grief side of the equation, and how it is playing into both of their actions, but with our feelings playing a HUGE part in our interaction with the opposite s3x, I think they will both be in for a rude awakening when those feelings fade.
That said, my wife and I met on November 16, basically moved in together two days later, and then got married on November 30. That was almost 7 years ago. I freely admit that we have our hard times, and both of us have had our issues with each other in those years. Thing is, that's normal, and healthy for a relationship, regardless of how long two people are together.
I think what really helped us is that we didn't have any of the ingrained, preconceived notions that most develop when dating for a long period of time....only to discover that those notions aren't right when the marriage finally comes about and they are together all the time. As such you take things one day at a time, and just understand that regardless of how much you LOVE each other, your not always going to LIKE each other. Then get past it and go on for yet another day, week, month, year, decade, etc.
That all said, I think that as long as both the man, and your lady friend are adults, your best bet will be to stay out of the whole deal and mind your own business, even when asked what you think. I say this because regardless of what your advice is, they are going to do what they want anyways. Worse, should your advice go against what they want, or what eventually happens, there is the potential for it to cause problems with your friendship.....Not something most people want.
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