I agree with others to see a lawyer now. One with a winning reputation. Preferably a woman - really, it helps.
Get your legal ducks in a row,and if things haven't gotten better by then, lay it out for your wife that you've had enough and exactly how you are going to proceed. Tell her this is her last chance if she wants to spend her life with you. And mean it.
Now the hard part: You have to prepare yourself to live without, well, maybe all your stuff. Resign yourself to the fact that you may have to give it ALL to her. But why is divorce so expensive? Because it's WORTH IT.
My goal, as it was with my divorce, was not to have to pay her a monthly check. She didn't want the house, so I re-mortgaged it and gave her a BIG one-time check. I found that easier to swallow than monthly payments. I didn't want to be beholden to her. And I'm not.
I'm monitoring a situation with my new wife - her 19 year old son, a loser by choice, just quit his crappy job for no apparent reason. Lives with his grandma, and they are both drug addicts. My wife is angry with him, and her mother, but still has this "Where did my son go? Who is this person?" attitude, as if he didn't do it to himself. He's doing it to himself, and until he reaches rock-bottom, he won't quit whining and conniving.
My wife is the best of her family, a very good person. Most of her family are drug addicts who know how to 'job' the system for all sorts of free stuff.
I love my wife very, very much, and she cares about me in a way my first wife never did. But her boy moved out and will NOT be coming back. If he does, well...I've been through divorce once, I can handle it again.
So hey! I feel your pain!
P.S. You were probably just blowing off steam, but DO NOT physically harm the son. It will only go against you in court. And she WILL use it, no matter how much he deserved it!
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