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Hi Michael, I'm glad that your female is back home and mostly well, and I'm truly sorry about your terrible loss. Generally I feel that words of consolation of the "it could have been worse" variety are misguided, even if they are meant well. In this case, though, I think that a partly tragic resolution beats the lack of any resolution that sometimes occurs in lost dog situations. We may never fully get over the loss of a close friend, but death is, at least, inevitable and final. Disappearance, however, is an ongoing nightmare. Two years ago our dog Pinky, who my wife and I loved more than any dog either of us had ever owned died through someone's carelessness or mistreatment at a vet's office while she was in their care. Very much to my surprise, my wife almost immediately began searching online for dogs resembling Pinky at animal shelters, pounds, and rescue sites in our region. I absolutely didn't know what to make of it. In just a day or two she found a dog at the Tacoma animal shelter that looked something like Pinky in just one picture. Actually she was a larger dog of a slightly different breed, with coloration that was similar but not the same, and a totally different personality. We adopted her. It was sort of a miracle how much it helped us get throught the sadness we felt to have the activities and problems of integrating a new dog into the household (four other dogs, two humans.) Of course, she never became Pinky as I suspect my wife secretly hoped that she would, but it didn't matter---the good was already done. Saving an animal's life by bringing it home to replace one that's just died may not be right for everybody. What I have to say about it is that it would never have entered my mind to do that, but it turned out that it couldn't have been more right. All the best, Stan
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