|
After I turned six or seven I observed my mothers side of the family get gifts from a x-mas grab bag exchange. Needless to say it changed me, insisting that a gift had to be home made by the giver. When the kids were small we did the Santa thing and all, I have friends of a different religion than my own, that tell the children from small on about Santa etc. Their think that total honesty is utmost---NO Santa, Easter bunny, tooth fairy---but yes to their Lord. I have for years told everyone that if they feel the need to give me a gift, please send the recipt so I can give it back to the store for cash that I will give to a less fortunate family. Then I expect them to reflect what Christmas is. I also get way out on a limb regarding funerals, weddings, & religious giving, as it seems the dollar bill is the most important factor. Perhaps Corperate America has a master plan to get our money---Do ya think! I'm sure some folks think I'm way out there, but I suggest you think of your child hood, then adult years--what was the best meaningfull gift you ever recieved. I willing to bet it was not from a wealthy person, nor a big dollar item. I try to give all year long in kindness, and assistance. I also reflect alot on what others do not have, and note how happy they are. Our families and health are the most important. Gifts perhaps not so much. Merry X-mas NE IA Dave
| 
