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youngfarmerguy

03-13-2005 21:18:15




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Hey this is youngfarmerguy. Got 1 h*** of a response from the last thread, so I figured we'd try it agin. You Farmall guy's are the greatest. God didn't make everything RED just the best, right? Nothing kills a Deere like a Magnum. Honestly, though you Deere guy's are all right. Never met a one that didn't love farmin'. My best friend runs Green. Any how, how many of you old timers(I say that with the upmost respect), have bonded more with sons and or any relatives when wrenchin' over these old girls than ever before? My old man and me have never been closer than when when we were fixin on the old SMTAD. Made a A Saturday out of pickin her up, nothin but good times since, A'int this what it's all about?

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Mike from cny

03-15-2005 22:27:25




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to youngfarmerguy, 03-13-2005 21:18:15  
Well I'm on the other side I guess. I'm 20, My dad doesnt really like the mechanical work a whole lot. I took over keeping the cars and trucks in the family up and going when I was around 14. He did when he was growing up, put a motor in a citroen with nothing but cresent wrenches, LOL and later on him and my uncle put a motor and tranny in a 72' vette. He ran a bobcat and smaller tractors at a college, he loved his job. Now he is home-bound due to back problems (some lower vertbrae fused and bolted togather). We've had a smaller tractor for a few years we finally got running over the winter, (AC 5030, factory loader ) When I first got it going, He took it for a ride around the yard and loved it. For some reason he has something against tracked machines, as I'm trying to talk him into a JD 450 track loader, dont want to beat the little allis up trying to push dirt and I'd be buying it anyways. I started putting the ol Fisher plow on the chevy truck when I was around 10 with a bottle jack I bought at napa.
I took over his tools when I was roughly 10 as well, nothing much just a small set from sears - a christmas oresnt from mom years ago. I'm still adding to it and now theres alot of snap on and whatever I can get my hands on. I started working on dirtbikes when I was 12, rebuilt my first engine then, got more and more bikes, a 3 wheeler and a couple 4 wheelers. at 15 I started to build my big chevy mudder truck, Dad's rusted out '85 3/4 4x4, alomost got sold and later on scrapped but it got rescued and its getting close to done now. Got the Allis about that time as well. Done alot of 2 stroke engines and some 4 stroke engines over the years now. Built a 355 Chevy for my '91 3/4 4x4 daily driver and dropped it in this past fall. My boss is a big JD 2 cyl nut, and I guess I'm getting the bug as well, his daughter pulled her car to work on it today and even though the 70 wasnt in the way, I insisted I move it, just so I could drive it around the parking lot..LOL. As for me I rebuild refrigeration compressors (carrier) and thinking about getting into pipe welding.

Once in a while I can get dad into the garage for a few beers and to shoot the breeze or what not, but most of the time he trys to leave after me telling him what toy is next on the list (track loader). Oh well he's great to have around and hopefully he'll keep on livin (he's 56) so we can enjoy the good times years to come, even if that means I have 'junk' all over his yard. Well its late and I'll get off my soap box and goto bed.

And for the video games, I dont know how some kids could be sitting inside all day when its nice out side. I know I'd rather be out there fooling around in the garage or playin with the tractor.

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upred

03-14-2005 20:25:52




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to youngfarmerguy, 03-13-2005 21:18:15  
I was readin the post and thinking about when I was in high school - boy was my dad stupid he din't know as much as I did, but since I moved out and got out on my own(about 30 yrs now) He sure has learned a lot. I guess it just took some time, for me to realize how smart he is --- Rick



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Indydirtfarmer

03-15-2005 03:48:15




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to upred, 03-14-2005 20:25:52  
Sinse dad died a few years back, there's a lot of things that remind me of him, and your comment is one. (And that's a GOOD THING!)

He used to tell me, "The older you get, the smarter I'LL get".

It took me having a hard headed son of my own to get the "big picture".

Sure do miss the old man..... ..... .



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buickanddeere

03-14-2005 17:59:05




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to youngfarmerguy, 03-13-2005 21:18:15  
As much as I hate the kid playing video games I humour him with a few minutes of Dad trying. After showing some interest the older boys stuff. It takes fewer offers of the toe of my boot to get him outside. The youngest we've always had to drag in from outside since he could walk. The daughter wants to go fishing all the time. It would be more fun if she didn't out fish me about 5 to 1.



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Brokenwrench

03-14-2005 13:14:06




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to youngfarmerguy, 03-13-2005 21:18:15  
I feel really lucky when it comes to this father and son stuff. My dad and I own a repair business together and we get along great. In fact most weekends you can find us doing something together. Drives my wife alittle crazy once in awhile, but dad"s better at doing her honey-do projects than I am, so she"s OK with it.
I have two boys 7 and 6, and one girl 3. Just today my 6 yr old (doesn"t have school on mondays)was at the shop from 8 to noon. What a blast, between helpng dad and grampa he"s busy the whole time he"s here. My 7 yr old"s the same way. The little girl, well you just put her on a horse with you and she"ll go all day long. It"s a blast. We have a video game machine, but since we got it they"re only aloud to play it on saturday mornings and that"s ok with them. After about an hour they"re ready to head outside and get into something. My nephew is one of those video game kids. He"ll sit there all day long. I think they"d get a headache staring at the tube all day like that. He spends alot of time at my inlaws dairy farm, but has no interest in being on the farm, just hook up the nintendo and let him have at it. I guess all kids are different, and I"d agree that what we think is fun and what they think is fun are sometimes two different things.

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MAC,IL

03-14-2005 11:42:01




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to youngfarmerguy, 03-13-2005 21:18:15  
When my boy was growing up, we did everything together, hunted, fished, and worked on cars and had wood projects. When I asked for a wrench, he always had the right one waiting to hand to me. Now he has a son and seems they do very little together. Maybe the generation? Changing times? Could be loss of interest in things? Different priorities? Maybe I am just a cranky old geezer who just dont understand, but I still try like H*** to figure it out.

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old blue

03-14-2005 16:04:06




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to MAC,IL, 03-14-2005 11:42:01  
dont try too hard cause well times are changing everythings so d*$% electronic now adays its a load of horse turd but hey changing times suck



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JOHNK

03-14-2005 11:00:32




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to youngfarmerguy, 03-13-2005 21:18:15  
I guess drug's are not as big a problem as they are here in New Jersey.Small town of 10,000 but it seem's like a third of the kid's smoke pot,includeing my 18 year old son.He say's there is nothing else to do.We did the boyscouts together which I enjoyed more then him,I tried to get him to go to a night school with me for any subject he would choose and it went from OK to hell no.He will finish highschool this year but I can't get him to go to any kind of trade school or anything else.Maybe thing's will get better once he get's a full time job,he worked fulltime last summer and loved it,the hour's were 5:30am to 2:30 pm.

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SHAMROCK

03-14-2005 09:50:02




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to youngfarmerguy, 03-13-2005 21:18:15  
My Dad passed away at 97 and that was too soon.Today I find myself saying I Should Of. Every Hr. is golden sometimes we learn to late. O yes God made GREEN #one everything else is #2 Keep smileing every day is a good day. Don't forget to Wear GREEN on Thursday, Green is good everywhere.



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Mike M

03-14-2005 06:56:42




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to youngfarmerguy, 03-13-2005 21:18:15  
My son (12 years old)still shows little interest in much besides yugo and pokemon and gameboys.I hate to push anyone into something they don't desire. My girl (9) shows a little more interest in my stuff.She has even went over to her friends place to help milk cows and feed the calfs.These will be good experiences for her.



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Ron in Nebr

03-14-2005 07:32:22




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to Mike M, 03-14-2005 06:56:42  
Mike- your description of your kids exactly fits my 10yr old son and 8yr old daughter too. My son only seems to think about all those video games and chinese fighting cartoons, but my daughter would rather be outside, building treehouses, going with me to do cattle work etc. Hate to forbid my son from doing things he enjoys, just hope his interests change soon!



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Mike M

03-14-2005 10:23:18




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to Ron in Nebr, 03-14-2005 07:32:22  
Well maybe if we're lucky our boys will follow in Bill Gates footsteps ?



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old blue

03-14-2005 15:51:40




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to Mike M, 03-14-2005 10:23:18  
dont get too disappointed everyone chooses their own path in life and no two ppl are the same. my brother and i were both given equal opportunities and though hes 5 or 6 years older than me i really took to the hands on side of everything where as my brother was more interested in haning out with friends id sooner be working on a push mower with my father or out splitting firewood. just remember once they see the amount of fun you have they are bound to join in.

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TimV

03-14-2005 06:41:32




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to youngfarmerguy, 03-13-2005 21:18:15  
It's not limited to father and son, either--I've seen many examples of husband and wives, neighbors, and even complete strangers share the challenge of making an old tractor purr and come out of it better friends!



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txblu

03-14-2005 06:19:14




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to youngfarmerguy, 03-13-2005 21:18:15  
Some of the best times I had with my boys were workin on something. Really enjoyed it.

Mark



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hay

03-14-2005 01:43:03




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to youngfarmerguy, 03-13-2005 21:18:15  
enjoy the time with your dad. i wish i would have had more time with my dad. he had a wealth of information, but he left too soon to pass much of it to me. we sure had some fun with an old farmall "B" though.



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tomturkey

03-14-2005 10:20:33




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to hay, 03-14-2005 01:43:03  
Sometimes you MUST pursue Their interest. It is not what YOU like but what you two can like together. Find the common interest and you won't be a..... wish I would have!!!!



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ric

03-14-2005 16:31:22




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to tomturkey, 03-14-2005 10:20:33  
i have a stepson ive known since he was 5 yr old he was playing video games then and still is at 20 . and wants to do nothing else. i never pushed him real hard about getting into the farm scene with me i thought he will sooner or later grow out of it but he never did. i guess the main reason i didnt push him harder was i didnt want the mean stepfather thing coming between us. hes a good kid otherwise but just isnt into much of the farm scene.just felt like i had to get it off my chest. thanks for reading.

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spud in mo

03-14-2005 21:51:47




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 Re: Father and Son in reply to ric, 03-14-2005 16:31:22  
When my bro and I were growing up my Pop had the two of us for freinds and it seemed that was all he needed. He took us everywhere he went and taught us about everything that we use today to make a living and at play. Until he passed away last oct. it was always the same. He was a big kid in a worn out body, aways ready to play with his boys, or ready to try something new. The memorys make his passing easier, mainly because there wernt any bad ones. He was never mean, always ready to answer any questions we had and always, ALWAYS treated us exactly the same. He had a older brother that got it all and he got nothing. He and Mom were determined that we would not be treated that way. My last child is a son. He is and will always be my best pal, just as Pop was ours. I hope that I can be half the Dad that Pop was to me and my brother. He is a fine lad, of six years, bright eyed and full of vim and vigor. He is a love sponge and with 4 sibs, and a loving Mom, he gets plenty of attention. If he hears a tractor or back hoe fire up, he comes arunnin! For his birthday we turned the storm shelter into a moon base with paint and stick on stars and boy is he in hog heaven. So easy to please, I think that alot of that has to do with rasing him out in the country, where he has to entertain himself. I say all of this to tell you fellas that spending time is the way to stay in these fellows hearts. In that way we can help them when they need it, guide them and keep them safe. It does, however, require a vast, VAST investment of time and energy... Pop would tell you that it was the best investment that he ever made.. He made sure that we knew how proud he was of us. He told us so often.. Boy do I miss that!!!
And him...

spud in mo

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