T_bone: 'tis a pure pleasure to be able to help you in anyway possible. I've lurked in these boards for quite some time and have seen your sage wisdom in the field of metalurgy and welding (I'm a Massey Ferguson Owner).Here's what I know...and I apologize to all in advance for this very long post... first I need to define "anyone"...If we're talking about the common tom, dick or Harry who has mediocre computer skills and knows a little about the net, then no, it's unlikely for them to be able to back-track through a dial up ISP (a DSL or cable connection is another matter). Basically, on a dial connection, it's pretty random and today's connection point isn't the same one that's used tomorrow. On a Cable or DSL connection there's an IP address that is yours either permanently (for a dedicated address) or semi-permanently (for dynamic addressing). These IP addresses can easily be backtracked.... However,ISPs in this country are pretty picky about protecting customer identities and will only give it up when faced with a subpoena. That said, please don't assume that your kids are safe. There are two basic ways for predators to find out who you are... 1) you tell them, 2)you have stuff on your pc that they can access and view that tells them. 1) "you tell them"... These SOBs are real good at getting little snippets of info over time from your kids. Today it may be the state they live in, tomorrow it may be the town (gee lil' squirt...what football team do you play for in high school...and where was that again?). The next day...well it all adds up pretty fast to enough info to track you down. Not sure if you know about "reverse lookup". Go to any phone book website (I use anywho.com) and click on the "reverse'lookup" button and type in your phone number...shazam! I know where you live! There are even a few that can track email addresses. Scary huh? 2)"you have stuff on your pc that tells them"...Those bits of info that you send to companies that you buy things from on the 'net...they put things called 'cookies' on your pc that contain all sorts of info. Most are fairly benign, but an enterprising snoop can get access to your hardrive and obtain all sorts of info. How you might ask?...simple, "hey lil' squirt, go to my website and click on that picture of a puppy"...well that picture of a puppy launches a program that can access your hard drive and transmit pretty much anything it wants back to the SOB. Other places include the info you put into your email "From". When you set up your email program (say 'Outlook'), there's a place where you can fill in name, address, phone,email, and nickname. Accessible from the outside using "pictures of puppies"? ...yup! Scared yet? you should be.... What can you do? Get involved with your kids...monitor where they go. A parent's primary duty is to make sure his kids stay alive until they're at least 18. That takes hands-on effort....and it isn't easy. I'm 52, my wife's 47, we just had our first...our son (yessir, we've redefined that phrase "shock and awe"). You've asked me a question that has struck a lot closer to home than you know. Get a firewall for your pc. There are a few that install directly on the pc itself and can give you some protection from the outside. Don't depend on it blindly tho'. There are also pieces of software that can log where your kids go...there used to be something called 'NetNanny'that I think worked that way. Go to a Computer store like CompUSA and find one of the geeks (I like geeks...I were/are one). Ask them. Explain your problem. Be careful that they don't sell you a skillion dollars worth of stuff. Ask if it effects your performance and/or response time (some do more than others). get a yahoo.com or hotmail email address and use that instead of your real one. It helps prevent spam as well. Go to ZDNET.com, or cnet.com and browse around the sections on home internet security. They'll even provide some product recommendations and ratings. Good luck and hope this helps.... Mike
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