Posted by MarkB_MI on December 30, 2012 at 07:46:50 from (75.219.8.226):
In Reply to: Getting over it posted by Farmallmaniac on December 30, 2012 at 00:42:55:
You'll never truly get over the loss of a loved one, but sooner or later you will accept your loss and move on. It is normal to feel some guilt. Everybody has regrets about what they should have said or done while their loved one was still alive. In time, you will come to understand that although you can't change the past, you can look back at your mistakes and learn from them. Use these lessons to become a better person. Learn to serve and help others. Learn to do things you don't want to do because it's the right thing to do.
Psychologists talk about the five stages of grief: "Anger", "Denial", "Bargaining", "Depression" and "Acceptance". It sounds like you've progressed to "depression" and are stuck there. This is perfectly normal; it takes time to move on to "acceptance". Don't think you have to make yourself "get over it". In time it will get better. Become the person your grandmother would have been proud of, and a little bit of her will live on in you.
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