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Re: OT: divorce woes


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Posted by greenbeanman in Kansas on September 08, 2008 at 10:16:28 from (70.130.60.58):

In Reply to: OT: divorce woes posted by school boy on September 08, 2008 at 09:45:29:

Sorry to learn that you are going through a divorce. Those folk that say divorce is the easy way out have never been through one have they? Nope, tough and I wish you the best.

If the two of you are working hard to stay civil toward each other why don't you see if she will sit down with you, just the two of you, and make lists of household items, vehicles, monies, well simply everything and see if you can come to a mutual agreement and then both sign copies of the agreement you have come to and present those lists to your attorneys.

After months of back and forth that is what finally worked in my case. I filed in July and it was April before the divorce became final. Most all of the delay was over property. When the two of us sat down it was mere days from the conclusion and we could have gotten on with our lives much quicker had we done this early on.

For those that have children involved and work off farm I would like to tell of what we worked out for child support.

First we agreed on a monthly amount, then figured out how many hours of my salary it took to produce that amount. From then on she received X number of hours of salary value. If I got a raise, she got a raise. If I got a cost of living adjustment, she got an adjustment. There were provisions allowing her to check with my employer anytime she wished to make sure I was giving a correct amount. It sure kept future court and lawyer fees out of the equation and worked very well for us. I strongly suggest it. Oh, there was the condition that once elevated to a certain level it couldn't drop below it. No changing jobs or quitting jobs simply to get out of the obligation.

Again, best wishes.


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