Sorry to over do this, but if you are like most of us going down the D road your head is not close to being in the game. Tears, sleepless nights, anger, disbelief, a fear of the unknown, money concerns, are going to take on a very new meeting. And the biggest shock of all is what a freakin joke our court system is. Just so you understand this is only normal, and you will get over it in what seems a life time. Nine out of ten victums in your shoes will admit suicide crossed their minds, the rest will lie about other thing as well. NORMAL NORMAL NORMAL
I could care less of your religion, I'm not Cathloic but in our area many many have said Catholic charities have helped them. I'ts called Berieved or something close to that. I have NOT attended but would sure recomend it from what I have heard.
You are going to be a lonesome dude for a while so why not visit folks that have worn your shoes? They will be more than happy to share their advise. You will not have problems finding divorced folks in your area. Never lay so much as a hand or threaten to touch your wife. Keep the kids out of the picture as best you can--they arn't stupid, and are scared to say the least. After she moves out----while you watch over the kids while she gains her freedom of the night life remember to make all conversations in a public place with whitnesses near by. Like a resterant, Mc Dees where the kids can enjoy if age fits in. Doesn't hurt the kids to see mom and dad together for a civil meeting. Many states make you go to divorce conceling---be in the front row if avaliable. By the way kids can sence troubles many times by what is not said so kind of be careful. In your eyes your EX is a good parent, she can lead her life as she pleases, and you think she is very important in your kids life with unlimited visitation that you will incourage her to exercise often. But just that you are a better parent. Gather all pictures WITH YOU interacting with the kids--maybe start taking more to show such interaction. Your wife probably will have lots photos of white sheets that come out late at night to show the judge. Make all parent teacher / school/ church and other child centered activities.
Invest in interaction with your wifes folks, visit with them and point out it is normal for them to take their daughters side. But you refuse to make them uncomfortable, you will do everything in your power to see that their intrests are important to you. Don't point out any negitive properties your ex has done. They are expecting that big time. Let them understand your biggest concern is the kids.
I will throw this in for the heck of it---usualy does not work out but ask the wife what she wants, and what she thinks you can both do to stay best of friends, avoiding legal fees, and the best times for her to see the kids and still enjoy her new life style as you think you still love her and she will always be your love even after a trial seperation, divorce. She can always come home to you and the kids if her life does not turn out as she expected. You don't want her to move far away because you want to just see her, and you want her to always see the kids, maybe you can help her get on her feet with extra cash.... Yea your tonge may turn black but it has been known to work several times.
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