Re: faimly related issue

Posted by Dave from MN on January 09, 2007 at 17:25:50 from (74.60.85.81):

In Reply to: faimly related issue posted by Stump Jumper on January 09, 2007 at 15:41:53:

My wife and BIL have the same issue as you , their maternal father would come around once or twice every few years and want to be part of their lives. Then the wife would have that "its all gonna be good feeling". then as quick as he came around, he'd be gone for a few more years, never with any apologies, reason, or notice. He is a jerk, IMHO, he comes around when all is falling around him, he contacts them when his bday is near, or a holiday, they even once canceled a family xmas here to travel about 100 miles to have a day with him, my wife and I provided food, pop, presents(because my wife still has that he's my father morals), and left with nothing but empty promises and the guy acting like he never missed a day. My kids confused asking us why that guy wants us to call him grandpa. Your pa may be nothing like my wifes, you need to give him an opertunity and see how it goes. If you dont you will regret it someday. I am adopted, i was contacted by my maternal mother about 6 years ago, with out being contacted by the proper person 1st, it was odd for me, but I went and met her. She is not well due to a nervous breakdown about the time i was born. I do not feel the love for her as I do my adopted parents, she has a hard time accepting that and I will stay in contact with her, but not in the way she wants. So, go ahead and see him, then proceed with sound heart and mind, not conscience.

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