Re: Father inlaw is on his last days with cancer,

Posted by Case Lady on August 17, 2006 at 09:02:23 from (64.216.183.41):

In Reply to: Father inlaw is on his last days with cancer, need posted by Midwest redneck on August 17, 2006 at 08:52:11:

First and foremost, prayers are said and sent for your family. Second, talk to your wife and find out her druthers. Just went through this in July for the 3rd time. I am a loner and prefer to take care of details on my own, however, when it comes to the visitation times and actual funeral, it really helped having someone there to lean on. If she tells you to go ahead and work, take her at her words to a certain extent, but make sure you are there with her during these critical times. As far as the money goes - again talk to your wife and maybe both of you approach MIL and let her know that you want to help, but you understand that she wants to do things on her own, but that it would help you out if you had an extra vehicle - or something along those lines. Whatever you decide to do, do it as a couple and do it with love. Also, realize, that the hard part will come after the funeral - when everyone realizes that he is gone - that is the hardest part of all.

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