Re: O/T BOY AM I P!$$ED !!!

Posted by monomechanical on July 27, 2006 at 19:47:56 from (67.182.206.119):

In Reply to: O/T BOY AM I P!$$ED !!! posted by phillip d on July 27, 2006 at 17:22:41:

Actually, I've had two or three good experiences with this sort of situation. I went to the individual and said, "I've heard from a numer of sources you've been bad-mouthing me. Have I done something I don't know about? I'm not aware of anything I've done to deserve the criticism. What's the source of the bad feelings? I've been nothing but kind to you. What's up?"

This sort of approach has helped STOP the false reports, and helped the fellow to refrain from doing it again to someone else. One time, the guy actually sent a note of apology and correction to every person he could remember speaking to.

It takes courage to knock on the fellow's door, but not speaking to him is enabling the sinful behavior.

Also, it's the closest I ever get to showing real courage.

Give it a shot and tell us what happens.

mono

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