Posted by Traditional Farmer on December 30, 2012 at 05:46:41 from (67.233.72.177):
In Reply to: Getting over it posted by Farmallmaniac on December 30, 2012 at 00:42:55:
I have no idea about your exact situation so its hard to judge but you sure sound alot like my brother.While my dad was sick and had a terminal disease that went on for about 2 years my wife and I helped my Mom take care of him night and day because the one thing he wanted was not to have to go to a nursing home and we took care of him and it was in fact instead of being a burden a great rewarding experience despite watching him die a little every day.He was a Christian man so I have no doubts he's better off today.On the other hand my brother was 'too busy' 'too involved' etc to help and hardly averaged 1 visit a week even though he lived only 5 miles from my dad.Anyway that was his choice he made his I made mine so be it.After my dad died my brother started to sound just like you wanting to get sympathy and someone to tell him his actions were OK.Well in my opinion his actions weren't OK and he was a dismal failure as a son which I finally told him after his moping and feeling sorry for himself got to be more than I could stand as the way I saw it even after dad died it was still all about HIM and HIS feelings not my dad or mom's feelings.Have you learned anything? Do you now feel and act differently toward others that are still living that have done things for you like your mom or dad?You can't change the past it is what it is but the future is up to you and your choices.
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