flying belgian
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Wife is Co-Trustee of some farmland put in her care from deceased father. Two acres of tillable land is land-locked, with only access for us through a deep ravine. When her father was alive, he left adjoining landowner farm it right along with his; gave him a turkey once a year. Now a doctor has purchased the adjoining land, built a home, planted some trees. The doctor wanted control of the two acres; wife told him "yes, for $130 an acre". He said "No." So we carried a weed sprayer through the ravine to control noxious weeds for 1 year. After that year wife told Doctor he can just take care of it. This went on for approx. 3 years. Now wife, in order to be fair to siblings, thought she better approach him to charge some rent again, and asked for $100 per year total rent. The guy threw a fit; name-calling, threatened to send her a bill for some grass seed and chemicals that he used to maintain it. Was told by an attorney there are cases where if someone maintains acreage for approx. 15 yrs. they can go to a judge and have him deed it in their name. This just blows me away! He suggests we draft up a letter with him signing agreeing that he is maintaining and we can revoke this at any time. In my mind I know this guy will never sign anything like that. What can we do to resolve this situation?