Lost my firstborn daughter

cool hand

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Today I committed to the ground the cremains of my firstborn daughter, 59 years old, a victim of pancreatic cancer. I've often heard it said that no parent should have to bury his child. That's how I'm feeling today.
 
Tough time for you and the family, do your best to get through it all ..... the memories remain which is something that you'll always have.
 
I am sorry. I have done it as well. There is no real recovery from that loss,
you just eventually kind of let the scars hold you together.
 
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I have a daughter that will be 59 years old this November. I can't even imagine the sense of loss that you are now experiencing. May the Lord sustain you at this difficult time.

Tom in TN
 
Sorry for your loss.
I hope no one has to bury their children or grandchildren.
My brother died at 65 of pancreatic cancer.
That's some nasty stuff.
Again Sorry for your loss.

Willie Nelson has a song. You will never get over the loss of a loved one, you just have to get through it..So true
Hope this helps.. Willie
 
I feel for you. It is tough and takes time, a long time, to accept. Get over it? I can't say that that will happen but it won't hurt quite as much. I lost my son at 43 last August. He wanted a small portion of his ashes taken to northern New Mexico where we would go trout fishing and some out in the Big Bend country. Got that done too. The monument company finally got his stone in and set this week. Little things. Peace. jy
 
So sorry for the loss of your daughter, I pray you can keep close company with family and friends in your time of loss.
 
man that's rough I have been married twice both ladies passed away way too soon. I well remember the hurt can't image how it would be to lose a child.
Pray a lot God will hear you even when you think He doesn't care.
 
Been 14 years ago, but still is emotional. 39 year old daughter, married for 4 years, brain tumor. 2 surgeries about a year apart but doctors could only say they got most of it and it would be back.
 
Im sorry for your loss. Four years ago, my wife and I buried our fist born after 36 hours of life. He had a severe heart defect. Remember and cherish the 59 years you had with your daughter.
You can heal from this if you choose to. Life can be great again, but different. Im not saying you will not have bad days here and there. Search and find God, take shelter in His Word. Time may not heal all wounds but if you want to heal, you can
 
Wow. Sorry to hear that cool hand. I have a good idea of what your going thru and know how your feeling. We lost a granddaughter in 06 that was a month from 3 years old. It does hurt. Prayers for you and your family. Richard
 
Cool Hand I am so sorry. You have my deepest sympathy. A few of us on YT wear the same shoes you do and we can tell you to loose a child is the toughest thing we can go through. God bless.
 
So sorry for your loss sir. My wife and I lost our first son. I felt like, and did, dig the grave myself. Like has been said, you never get over it. You have to push and get through it. My wife also had a couple of miss carriages. We have a 21yo daughter and a 13yo son.
 
You and I belong to a club NO ONE ever wants to join. We lost our 20 yo daughter in an auto accident in 1988. Do you ever get over it? NO! Time helps you to deal with it, that and the prayers of the Christians...
 
So sorry for your loss. We understand all too well what you're feeling as we buried our 36 year old daughter on Monday after a 3 year battle with leukemia. Have talked with others who say it gets less difficult with time but never goes away. We'll see. Prayers to you and your family.
 
So sorry for your loss as I can only imagine what your going through. My mother worries too about the loss of one of her kids before her. She's 98 and the youngest of her six kids is 63 and we all are doing good. My oldest of my four kids is 52 and dealing with a bout of cancer at this time. A prayer his been sent to you through this difficult time.
 
Sorry for your loss . I lost my second son at age 54 to a massive hart attack in 2020
then lost my beautiful Wife in Feb. 2022 to heart attack . Know what your dealing with . Just take it a day at a time . hope that she wasn t in a lot of pain.




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I lost three good friends in a town of 1800 people in 1 year, another 25 years old, survived, they caught it early, it's so quick in some cases! I feel for you, take care!!
 

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