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Dsmythe

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Hi Guys;
I don't post a lot on here but I read most of what you folks write.
Just a note. My wife of 49 years past this morning. I covet your Prayers.
Dsmythe
 
A sad time, I'm sorry for your loss. Hope you can find comfort in those around you. Being with others helps.
 
I lift you and your family up in prayer tonight as I end my day, I pray the days ahead are made bearable by the thoughts of your time together, you will see her again.
 
Memories are one of God's gifts to us. Prayers are with you
May your memories be filled with love and peace and joy.
Blessings, Rev. Kris
 
Losing your wife of 49 years is a hard thing to have happen. You will morn her everyday. IT WILL get less painful with time. Remember the good times with her. Talk to your family about those good times too. You can morn/heal together.
 
Mr. Smythe, I can't even begin to imagine. Wife and I have been together for less than half that time. Have looked back in your posts and see she had been sick a long time. Our prayers are with you and your family.
 
Very sorry to hear of your loss,i pray for comfort and peace for you your family and friends in all the days that lie ahead. Know that she is comfortable now in a beautiful place but still with you everywhere you go.
 
I feel your sorrow. I lost my wonderful wife of 48 years in 2015 to a brain tumor. It is a trying time, but keep your faith strong in the Lord. Gene Davis, Ga.
 
Now is the time to let your grief find expression. No false strength. Now is the time to sit quietly and speak to your wife, and thank her for being with you these years, and encourage her to go on with whatever her work is, knowing that you will grow in compassion and wisdom from this experience. In my heart, I know that you and she will meet again and again, and recognize the many ways in which you have known each other. And when you meet you will know, in a flash, what now it is not given to you to know: Why this had to be the way it was.

Our rational minds can never understand what has happened, but our hearts ? if we can keep them open to God ? will find their own intuitive way. your wife came to you to do her work on earth, Now her soul is free, and the love that you can share with her is invulnerable to the winds of changing time and space.
 
Easier as time goes on YES, but you never get over it. I lost my wife of 37 years in 2015. This post started me crying again.
 

Depression is normal if you did not love her you would not suffer from depression. I set down and wrote what traits my wife had that griped my arse those were the same traits that everyone else loved her for.

It then became obvious what she was loved... In her case time meant noting to her she lived her life using a clock that had no hands on it just numbers I called it TT time... If there were ever a person that had time for you it was her...

I do my best since she passed to live without a clock I can tell ya you wont get much done but you will enjoy the time spent with others you are around much better...

Be happy you had that time with her and hope time is not an issue as you move on with out her...

Tears are love its normal she would have had the same tears... You would have hoped she would hit the road running and you will I hope...

Its a sit and wait time no clock needed but sooner are later the clock will tick again just remember those hands do not rule your life...
 
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