Brent Zappe
Member
Sorry for the topic subject but lately I feel this way. I have been tossing a coin up in the sky and nothing say's if I am right.Been fighting an older sister and have heard nothing form my older brother. My mom came down with old timers and she not turning around for the better. Sister say's that dad can not take care of her but she needs a home just for her. AS any body ever price one of these places out (wow). They want the house, the cars, and all the money in the bank. How do you explain to your dad that his world is now been taken away. Just because they are to much money. Some times you respect that your parents had work hard for there retirement and they to should be able to live the life they enjoy. It is sad to realize that insurance does not pay for the stuff you might need. These past four weeks I have visited these homes and seen how these people live with there pain (it is sad). My dad is in great health for his age I caught him driving around his favorite tractor. You might say it makes me feel good to see an 86 year old man out for a day on his tractor. I am still feeling like that son with wanting to try to help out. I still have that saying Damn if I do and Damn if I do not. Who side do I respect my sisters or my dads. I really believe that my dad knows best ( after all he has been married to my mom for 63 years). I think that my mom is still the world for him. (WOW) Just think So what the hay if I am damn it is no big deal I guess I have been the problem kid for years when i grew up. Just been a busy two months of trying to make things right. Yes I know I should just step aside and let my sister over run my dad but that will hurt me even more.