Char update

Leroy

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As I posted yesterday morning My Wife Charlotte (Char) passed away yesterday morning. Must have been her heart tho no indications. Sat and Sun she was complaining of back and leg pains, yesterday morning complaining of left sholder pains, was going to cakk the chiorpractor as soon as they were in office. At 6:60 she called into work that She was not going to be able to be in. At about 5 after 7 She was gone when I called 911. She was born Sept 30, 50 so 64 years old. We were married 37 years last Jan 7. The funeral is to be fri at 10:30. Char had 2 sisters and 3 brothers and 2 boys from a previouse marriage. 7 living and 1 decesed grandchildren. We only know where 4 of the grandkids are. Char and I met end of July, started going together in August and married the following Jan. Luckley my parents when they bought their plots bout 2 for my wife and I 35 years ago and we have had the stone for 20 years. I just don't know how I am going to make it. Lester Helmlinger, Wapakoneta, Ohio
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Im so sorry Les. A loss like yours takes a long time to come to grips with. Hang in there and talk it out with us if you need to.
 
So sorry for your loss. You have friends on this board. Talk all you want to us. It really helps.
 
My condolences for your loss. It makes it even more difficult when its so sudden, with no time to get your mind around the possibility before it happens. Just keep puttin' one foot in front of the other.
 
It is hard. I lost my wife of almost 44 years 3 months ago today. You always want one more smile, one more conversation. I can't tell you it will be easy but you have to keep moving,mentally and physically. My deepest sympathy to you.
 
Prayers have been sent for you and your extended family.

I don't want to misuse this site or upset the administrators, but there is a large audience here and it is possible that someone knows where the missing grandchildren are if we knew who they were.

Arlyn
 
Hang in there, Les. Do not be afraid to ask for a shoulder to "lean on". Friends will be there to help you thru this sad time. clint
 
Sorry for your loss. Just get through today. Don't think about tomorrow. Tomorrow start over a gain, get through one day. Pretty soon you will feel some better.
 
We are so sorry.
Beyond the darkness, light . . . Beyond the sorrow, peace. We wish you everything you need to get through this difficult time.

Daniel & Suzie
 
Lester, thanks for sharing. I know it must be rough considering how fast it happened. Not like you've had a lot of time to think about it. Stay strong.
 
So sorry to hear of this. You are probably in a state of shock. It is good that you came here to talk. That will help you, dont hold it in.

Hang in there and keep talking to us.

Gene
 
Thanks for updating us Lester.

I can only imagine how tough it is on you.

All I can say is that there are plenty of us here that may not know you all that well, but well enough to listen any time you need to get some thoughts out, and help you through this tough time as best we can.

Stay in touch.
 
so sorry, yes it is hard do you ever get over it no- but yes we can go on , lost my love last
aug very similar circumstances, telling me she felt tired and real bad one minute gone the next.
hang in there take it slow but stay busy it helps
kj
 

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