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Well, I am home....

What a girl.. I am in love...

Okay maybe not quite yet, but close!! :p

She tells me that she was actually born off grid and lived in the woods for a while.. She said that her mom had 4 "boy friends" at the time, and that one of them is "probably my dad". She has 4 old sisters, and 9 brothers, she is the youngest.

All of the boys ad two of the girls stayed back East with the 4 BF's and the new 5th BF brought her mom, sister, and her over here, and then ditched them when he got here... So, she has never really had a dad. She lives in a TINY apartment with her mom, sister, and sisters drug-head husband.

I really feel for the girl... She is SO quiet, VERY timid, but once you get her talking she is pretty fun!

She likes Classic Rock (good)
She likes Chevys (good)
She HATES Fords (REALLY good)
She likes all kinds of food (good)

Can't wait to see her again...... :)

No picture today, I am taking her bowling and then to dinner Saturday (alley was closed today??) So maybe then...

Bryce

P.S. When I picked her up, I opened the door on my truck for her, and she looked at me funny and said "what are you doing?"....

Said that my truck was the nicest car she had ever been in, they drive a rested out VW Van!
 
I read your posts Bryce and applaud your achievements so here is some advice - go S-L-O-W.
 
(quoted from post at 19:51:07 01/20/15) Well, I am home....

What a girl.. I am in love...

Okay maybe not quite yet, but close!! :p

She tells me that she was actually born off grid and lived in the woods for a while.. She said that her mom had 4 "boy friends" at the time, and that one of them is "probably my dad". She has 4 old sisters, and 9 brothers, she is the youngest.

All of the boys ad two of the girls stayed back East with the 4 BF's and the new 5th BF brought her mom, sister, and her over here, and then ditched them when he got here... So, she has never really had a dad. She lives in a TINY apartment with her mom, sister, and sisters drug-head husband.

I really feel for the girl... She is SO quiet, VERY timid, but once you get her talking she is pretty fun!

She likes Classic Rock (good)
She likes Chevys (good)
She HATES Fords (REALLY good)
She likes all kinds of food (good)

Can't wait to see her again...... :)

No picture today, I am taking her bowling and then to dinner Saturday (alley was closed today??) So maybe then...

Bryce

P.S. When I picked her up, I opened the door on my truck for her, and she looked at me funny and said "what are you doing?"....

Said that my truck was the nicest car she had ever been in, they drive a rested out VW Van!
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got 25¢ that says that you are making that sheet up, because no one would want that set of in-laws, etc. :roll:
 
I'm just speculating here...

Could the newest posts from "Bryce" about his new date be from someone posing as him?

Bryces Mom told him NOT to get on this forum and he said he would not. I believe him. Therefore, either someone is posing as Bryce or Bryce did not honor his mothers wishes...I do not know...

But I think Bryce has a good enough head on his shoulders that he would not fall for someone like this or....it's an imposter posing as Bryce to "prank or troll'.

Just my opinion.
 
I don't like to get involved in other people's love life,but somebody with that kind of background has nothing in common with you and I sure hope you figure that out fast. She'll drag you down to her level and you won't look good trying to climb out of the hole she'll take you to. Just my 2 cents. Take it for what it's worth.
 
Welcome back. My advice follow the goodness of people, not looks or quiet, or compliance. Goodness is powerful engagement with life. A solid self appreciation with goals and drive. It also includes interest in education (not necessarily formal, but growth and intelligence being fostered) I wish you good fortune and hope she is more than you hope for. Spend time talking and appreciating who each of you are. Lifting someone to a different level is way rewarding, but can lead to unanticipated entanglements. At this point avoid every tendency to give to that family, it will be a disaster at this point. Welcome back, Jim
 
WHAT?? It's me! Not sure if you guys realize it, but you can "reserve" your name with a password, which I have done. If it wasn't me, then how would they have the EXACT same screen name as me?

If you don't believe me then what ever!

Please note, this was a FIRST date, and I knew NONE of this before hand! I think that in all honesty this girl needs a friend, maybe not a boyfriend.

All we did was go out to lunch and cruise around a little bit. I am treading lightly, but this is very new to both of us.

After talking with her, she wants to be a Psychologist! She is VERY smart, and seems to want to not want to go down the same road her family has...

Don't know much yet, but I don't think a dinner date could do too much harm.



As for the previous situation, mom and I have come to an agreement, because I REALLY wanted to be back here with my family. I am just planning on laying low.

Bryce
 
Here's a picture of me sitting looking at my computer... 83860 Sagle ID....

You guys are crazy........
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"As for the previous situation, mom and I have come to an agreement, because I REALLY wanted to be back here with my family. I am just planning on laying low."


Bryce- That is really NOT a good way to "planning on laying low"! by posting this on a forum. I will call BS and say I am done on this topic!

Goodnight and Good luck
 
Okay...

I apologize! You guys need to realize that you are my only friends, and I was just SO excited to tell you all how it went!

This is just as exciting as getting a new tractor for me!

Thanks,

Bryce
 
(quoted from post at 20:35:48 01/20/15) That post is north of Wichita and east of Newton Kansas. Thought Bryce was around Idaho.
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ughes Net, so your IP lookup is meaningless
 
Keep your hand on your wallet. I would not assume this girl to be after your money, but you also need to protect yourself as well. You and she come from COMPLETELY DIFFERENT places in life. She lives in dire poverty while you have money to spend and many possessions. You are growing up a reasonably stable 2-parent family. She doesn't even know who her father is. This all does not make her a bad person, but go slow and take plenty of time to get to know each other before making any commitments. After all, you are only 16, and this is your first GF.
 
I've read most of Bryce's posts and find it hard to believe some of these tales. Maybe it's just because I was born and raised in the Show-Me state, but I find this story tough to swallow. Sounds like we may have a big catfish on our hands. Hope I'm wrong, wouldn't be the first time.
 
I believe him. I got the same girl knocked up when I was 17. That's why I advised him to get out. I don't regret my daughter,but the space cadet that had her ran off with a biker when my daughter was two and a half. Makes a tough row to hoe when you're a single dad at 20.
I hope young Bryce doesn't get in over his head. If his mother was wise enough to stop him from getting on this forum,I sure hope she'll step in to this situation before she ends up raising a grandchild.
 
I am kind of taken a back by some of the comments. The girl I met in 81 was a city girl, i worked on a huge daiy farm when we met. she didn't know a clutch from a shifter,youngest of 4 , no dad, mom was a drunk, 2 years later we were married. 2 kids and30 something years later and still going! not to blow our own horn but we think we have done well! Dale & Lynn
 
Now there is some truth! Thanks RRlund...

Today was a first date, I am not planning on marrying her Saturday!! I think that some of you guys are taking it toooo fast in your heads! :)

After learning what I did today, I have my guards up, however she IS a very nice, sweet girl, and I think that a few dates is probably pretty harmless..

No worries about the grandkids. I would NEVER do something like that!

Thanks again... Bryce
 
Hi Bryce,
Welcome back to the forum. Glad you're back. I do believe it is you, because your writing style, word choices, and type style are all indicative of the real Bryce. Glad to hear you had a good time on your first date. As others have said, proceed with caution, but don't hold this girl's past against her. She is certainly her own individual, and her messed up family situation doesn't make her less of a person. Just keep in mind she has been exposed to many hardships already in life that you have been spared from. Take it slow, and don't allow your emotions to make decisions that your logic should be making. If you find a relationship beginning to form, you want to be sure she is joining you in your lifestyle of ethical decisions, strong morals, and good work ethics. Please don't allow yourself to fall into a life style similar to what you described as being what this young lady has experienced. Drugs, alcohol, poverty, and many "relationship partners" will take you down a path you DO NOT want to be on. You are entering an exciting part of your life! One that you can enjoy now and look back on with pride in the future, or it can be a time of hardship now and regret in the future. You hold the possibilities in your control. Make the good choices I know you are capable of. Again, glad you are back with the YT family. I always take time to read your posts.
 
I hope everything went well today Bryce. She sounds like a nice girl. While I do not completely agree with some of the other comments, I will say you do need to be careful and take your time so you know what you're getting into. Don't take this the wrong way, but they do have a point about being careful and all that.

I am your age so I do know how excited you must be but sometimes things are not what they seem or appear to be, and I'm sure none of us want you to learn that the hard way. Just make sure you take it nice and slow. If things were actually meant to be, then there is no need to rush into things.

If I may ask, just out of curiosity, how long have you known this girl or been friends with her and do you know how many boyfriends she has had in the recent past? Not trying to be nosy, but just something to take into consideration.

I hope it all works out for ya!!

FarmallCT
 
Take is SLOW, and remember this is your first and probably hers also. Dating is like test driving a car, don't plan to keep it unless you are really sure, and that takes time.
 
I have known her for a couple of months, but have only seen/talked to her a few times.

This was her first ever actual date. Said that she had been kind of waiting for someone "normal"...

Beings that she wanted to go out with me, I guess that means I am kind of Normal! YAY! :p

Yep, no worries, I am making note of all the warnings. Tooooo many of them are from first hand experiences... :) Bryce
 
Of course?!?! Why wouldn't I???

I have a LOT of rights in our house, and as long as I keep a good "record" I can pretty much do what ever I feel is within the realm of good judgment...

They really trust me, and that is because I am a very good individual, and rarely let them down! I have spent a LOT of time building up trust, now I am proud to say that I am using it to my advantage! :)

Bryce
 
Hi Bryce
I believe you, a friend of mines son is dating a girl and her sister and mother are a waist of space, The girlfriend is very similar to what you say, totally opposite!.

From a personal experience.
I worked many hours at a job I hated. I had money in the bank, as i had no time to spend it.I Was going to buy a $30.000 truck half up front finance the rest, so i still had money left. Well I met "The girl" all i will discuss is the truck would look better in my yard. Than her butt did disappearing down the road with my money. She was real convincing, turns out her mother taught her well.
You got to make up your own mind as you know. There is the odd one where the apple fell miles from the tree but not many.
Good Luck and i hope you make the right call what ever it might be
Regards Robert
 
The only thing more that I'll say on the subject is "To be 16 again and know what I know now".
 
Bryce,
I'm a little older than you, but not so old that I don't remember those times. Please go slowly and be careful. Just get to know her and take it from there. Good luck,
Josh
 
Another one bites the dust! I have four boys and all have been good help til they found girls. lol
 
I married a city girl. She and her family brought nothing to the table, just student loan debt.

We had farms.

Cost me close to $500,000 to get free of her.

Sure there aint some country girls out there? Only children, and dads and grandpas with lots of tractors and land?

Take it very easy.

Gene
 
That is good you have known her/talked to her at least a little before this and that it is also her first date. It kinda makes it "even" so to speak so neither of you will want to rush it.

That is so true, and thankfully all of mine have been very minor compared to experiences others have had.

Keep us posted and welcome back! Hope we'll see ya around.

FarmallCT
 
Bryce, I'm glad to hear you had a good time. You have been offered a lot of advice, most of it being good. I have seen situations such as this where the two individuals come from different ends of the spectrum, sometimes it works, oftentimes it doesn't. Now, statistics show that few people marry the first person they date, (and I know that is not on your mind at present),but the main point being such a difference in backgrounds. It can be a very interesting relationship,or friendship, just be careful and don't let your feelings turn into pity and find yourself giving money, etc. as has already been mentioned. When I began dating almost 60 years ago, life was a lot different than now. The relationships that I have watched my three kids endure for the past 25 years or so have been heartbreaking, to say the least.
 

The fact that she said she was waiting for someone normal gives me a glimpse of hope. So many times kids who are raised in a family like hers, if you can call it a family, are only comfortable when they are around scumbags. She decided to go out with a smart clean cut guy (you) instead. As far as the treading softly advice goes, you should tread softly with every first date, no matter what her background is. Some of us remember the lyrics "never marry a beautiful wife if you want to be happy for the rest of your life" from a song from the 60's. I forget the name of the song, someone else here can help me out.
 
Lotta drama there for sure, but if I listened to these guys I wouldn't be married for the last 17 years. There are some days I wish I had listened, but the vast majority of days are great. My wifes story is not that much different, but she also had near 20 years extra to add to the drama before we met.

The advice to be careful is good no matter who the girl is, lots of folks divorced from virgin preacher's daughters too. But in the end it's all about what she is, not who she is.
 
Bryce, I enjoy reading your posts. Am old enough to be your great grandfather! lol I know it is 'exciting', however try to have fun and keep it 'light' for now. Things in common is very good.
A cousin of mine went to pick up a girl for first date. They walked to his car and he went to open the door for her. She firmly stated, "I can open my own doors" ! He replied, "OK, go back to your house and open that one for yourself"! and he got in and left. (I think it's funny).
Enjoy the rush !!! ;-)
 
I'm really glad you did Bryce because that's important. I asked because you didn't mention it and you have mentioned your mom in many of your posts.

Best of luck to you in this new phase of your life.
 
Geez. The lads on his first date. Its not like he asked you to be ring bearer. I've been #unt struck but let the boy enjoy it. I married the pres. From my FFA chapter. She beat me in weed and seed I'd. I thought it was true love. Had a kid together and I got crushed but I wouldn't trade any of it for nothing. Aw 'ell I sound just like the rest of yous.
 
Not advice, just saying. Only girl I ever dated and only guy she ever dated and we are looking at 60 years married this July. Both farm kids but never had a chance to farm ourselves.
 
No, as I understood it, she has had that many!!

Actually, there are 3 or 4 families around here that I know of that have a LOT of kids! I know of one, where this couple has grandkids, that are the same age as their own children?!?!!?!?

TOOOOOOOOOOOO Many siblings for me! I am very happy being a loner.... :)
 
Bryce. It appears to me the tractors will be idle for a while. Sounds to me you are having a good time. Glad the first date worked out ok. It's good she likes the truck. Have fun. Stan
 
For going on your first date, I am sure getting a kick out of reading the responses you have been getting tonight. They have got you married off already and you haven't even been on a second date with her yet. Only thing I got for you is watch the drug head in the apartment. My ex ran off with one fifteen years ago.
 
Thats kind of what I was thinking...

BUT, I think that they all must be a bunch of old guys with nothing better to do than worry about little ole me... Gives me a "Warm and Fuzzy" feeling inside! :)
 
Hi Bryce
Don't take what your being told the wrong way. Some of us are not that old 41 next month , but remember the experiences, of the situations like this. some are good and some bad

The girlfriend i have now never asks for money, can pay bills,as she has a job, has her own house, Can drive her own vehicle. It's a lot different to some I dated.
either you got a good friend, a girl friend at some point, or just a whole load of trouble you don't deserve or need.
Thats your choice how you deal with it. I can guarantee if it don't go right, and you post it here. You will have the second longest topic on here that didn't get deleted saying " I told you so" from 99% of the guys here now L.O.L
 
Wow, the mom's been busy, but not the first or the last.

There are advantages and disadvantages to loner kid, small family, big family, and usually the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.
 
Ain't no one worried about you. It's a man thing. We men try to keep each other from making the mistake of marriage. That is several things rolled into one. What's yours become hers and what's hers stays hers. Marriage is an institution, kinda like a penal or mental institution. Once you get your man card you are duty bound to warn other males, some too young for a man card about women and the truth of a "relationship". Next thing you know you'll be expected to watch chic flicks instead of the ball game, dump your friends and hobbies and such to keep her happy. :lol: :lol:

Rick
 
Well I read this very long thread, and I will say, it is a lot more interesting, than the earlier State Of The Union, and probably more believable!
 
Ha,Ha!. Well, I too, am one of those Old Guys, but I only worry about myself and my cats. Glad to see you are starting out as a gentleman, opening the car door for her. I wonder how many men do that anymore.
 
Bryce, glad to see you had a good time, and that you are back on the board, was already missing your posts. Good luck with the girl, sounds interesting and down to earth, hard to find these days!
 
My mom has ALWAYS taught me to open doors for anyone, and I do, I find it quite fun, because people aren't sure what you are doing, and half the time will just freeze up and look at you! :)

When ever I go somewhere with her, she WILL NOT touch a door, if I don't open it, we will both just stand there! :)

Those are standards for me, I guess that they were not for her! :(

Bryce
 
I think that she has seen what her family has done, and is planning on doing the exact opposite!

She dresses much better, eats better, speaks better, and all in all just seems to already be better off! :)

Ii really had a good time, just wish there were more things to do in this tiny little town! :

Bryce
 
Bryce, glad you had a good time with your new friend. Some of us worry about you because of mistakes we've made along the way. I too made some poor choices in life with my first wife. She was an only child and brought nothing to the table. Her parents were very poor. They were not ambitious or could manage money. Being an only child she was accustomed to having her own way. The more ot I worked the more she expected. I wasn't young either being 27. I had a house and new car which were both paid for when we got married. I had my first son with her,later divorced, expensive lesson learned. My current wife and I celebrated our 30th anniversary on the 19th of this month. At some point you will meet a girl where the relationship becomes serious. This is a new learning experience for you. Sometimes far more expensive than paying to much for a tractor that hasn't been taken care of. Take it slow, making sure your mother approves of the girl you believe is a keeper, especially since you are so young. Good luck with your new girl fiend. Enjoy your posts Bryce. Richard
 
I grew up (near) a town of a population under 500, so I know what you mean about small town with nothing to do, we had a general store, a hardware, a bakery, auto parts, 2 bars, one gas station and 2 resturants, and of course the school, that was it.
 
(quoted from post at 14:28:41 01/21/15) I grew up (near) a town of a population under 500, so I know what you mean about small town with nothing to do, we had a general store, a hardware, a bakery, auto parts, 2 bars, one gas station and 2 resturants, and of course the school, that was it.
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Funny! When I join the Army in 74 my home town was about 125 people. Had 1 each church, full service gas station with a self car wash, bar, café and of course a post office. As young soldiers will do they will sit when they can and invariably ask each other where they are from and what it's like. I always told them it was a teenagers/married persons worst nightmare. That long before you could get home at least 10 people had called mom/dad/spouse and told on you. When ask what we did for excitement??? I'd tell em that we sat around the gas station playing pinball and watching hair grow!


Rick
 
Bryce
(quoted from post at 20:31:38 01/20/15)
I think that in all honesty this girl needs a friend, maybe not a boyfriend.
Bryce
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That's an intelligent observation.

Just have fun! enjoy her company and friendship. real friends are real blessings. Just enjoy it!
No matter what happens: you treat her the same way you want other guys to treat your (future) wife. :) sounds like you are- good job!
 
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