you described typical heroes , That Really are GREAT AMERICANS... this country was blessed with a lot of them , who baptized their shed blood all over the planet... Dad never wanted to talk about his life in the south pacific taking island by island in amphibious tank,.. what they endured and survived marked them all the days of their life, my Parents were married in Nov . 45 ,their wedding pix shows Dad has his right arm in a sling , I recall a 4th of july family celebration ,when dad and his brothers, cousins had a little too much to drink , theywere all up in the barn , and aunt Elsies husband, in tears, started telling and sobbing about his war dramas , and how he still sees their dying faces in his mind,. Dad and uncle Bill was one of those that told him to keep it in , and not to talk about it ,,if you do , it revives and keeps those memories alive .. . that was back in the late 60s ...veitnam was in full swing . and Elsie's son was over there..And My cousin did come back ... today there are older guys around me that went to 'nam ..,I remember they left as a hi -school kid , and came back very different,, quietly , I used to worry if I would be able to serve and survive , after I would graduate hi -school in 1975, I was sure to go military ,, but it ended , and I met a great gal ,drove nails , truks, tractors,cows , and hogs, and made money ,, thanx to those guys that served , and Dad ,, Lets All remember VETERANS DAY