What do you do when you find out your own Dad has lied to you thru all your years? You try to help him with certain things and he doesn't do what you suggest any way.
I've caught my dad in so many lies thru the years. Just found out tonight. About 8 yrs ago he asked me if I would help him sell the Old Farmall "A" tractor his dad had bought back in 1939. I mentioned he should talk to the one mechanic at the IH dealership where his dad (my grandfather) bought the "A" from. I also told him yes but talk to your other two sons first (my two brothers) a month went by and dad asked me again to sell it for him thru the internet. I asked him if he talked to the other two (sons) He said Yeh!! Well turned out he talked to some one else at the IH dealership and hadn't talked to my two brothers about it. Then he turns around and tells my brothers that a friend of mine bought it. This was a total outright lie, I don't know the young man who bought it. I'm fuming right now. His habit of lies and stealing thru the years has upset our mother a bunch and I can see why. Mom and Dad are still on the farm but now I don't feel much like stopping by any more, at least not until I cool down.
This is just one incident there have been many more.
I have read thru the years that there are elderly people in the nursing homes and no one comes to see them not even their own children. Some times I wonder if those children had to put up with lies like my brothers and sister have??
Just venting.
I've caught my dad in so many lies thru the years. Just found out tonight. About 8 yrs ago he asked me if I would help him sell the Old Farmall "A" tractor his dad had bought back in 1939. I mentioned he should talk to the one mechanic at the IH dealership where his dad (my grandfather) bought the "A" from. I also told him yes but talk to your other two sons first (my two brothers) a month went by and dad asked me again to sell it for him thru the internet. I asked him if he talked to the other two (sons) He said Yeh!! Well turned out he talked to some one else at the IH dealership and hadn't talked to my two brothers about it. Then he turns around and tells my brothers that a friend of mine bought it. This was a total outright lie, I don't know the young man who bought it. I'm fuming right now. His habit of lies and stealing thru the years has upset our mother a bunch and I can see why. Mom and Dad are still on the farm but now I don't feel much like stopping by any more, at least not until I cool down.
This is just one incident there have been many more.
I have read thru the years that there are elderly people in the nursing homes and no one comes to see them not even their own children. Some times I wonder if those children had to put up with lies like my brothers and sister have??
Just venting.