My dad, 91, alert and self sufficient, had a bad spell with UTI (urinary infect.) and pneumonia. I didn't realize that UTI in elderly causes great confusion! Heck, he couldn't figure out how to work the light switch, had to call ambulance, couldn't get up. Hospital, now rehab, for what its worth. His mind is not returning like it was and p@@ing just won't work no more. Looks like home care round the clock. Wish I could find a reliable sitter. He had a similar but not nearly as bad a spell 1 1/2 yrs ago and I panicked and hired a care firm and they sent an "entirely inappropriate" lady in (its not at all like the the tv commercial). What's your experience with finding a sitter for the elderly? Mom's okay but early stages of dementia. I visit here usually daily, its my "therapy". I share your advice and anecdotes with others. I know its a tractor forum. But, I also know we all share similar events in our lives. Thanks