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My lovely wife of 44 years lost her battle to cancer Wednesday. She had a lot of pain and Hospice had to try different meds for that. I cant say enough good about Hospice and our Pastor. I think they are both in the same business. The funeral dirrector told us to expect a huge turnout at the funeral. with all the hits on his website and directions given. She helped me on my tractors any time she was needed. She was more worried about me then herself. Its going to be tough not to have her by my side
 
Sounds like she was one of the best.

I'm sorry for your loss and I suspect she's still worrying about you and hopes you can find a way to keep yourself content and happy until you meet again.
 
So very sorry for you. Can"t even begin to imagine how tough things are for you right now.

May the Lord bless and keep you, grant you comfort and peace.
 
"What thought the radiance once so bright be now forever taken from my sight, thought nothing can bring back the hour of splendor in the grass of glory in the flower, we will grieve not rather find strength in what remains behind"

William Wordsworth

"Though weeping endure through the night, joy cometh in the morning" The Holy Bible

You have my sympathy and prayers, may God bless and comfort you

John T
 
Please accept Mrs. Ray, and my sympathies. We're battling the big C here too... Kind of know what you went through. Hopefully, we'll have a better outcome. Prayers.
 

My friend, I went through it on Dec. 14th. 52 yrs with my wife I feel your pain, But life goes on and you'll find the strength, Just keep busy and let your friends in !! If your a church goer, they will help! May God shine down upon you,And know she is not suffering any more!! Jim in N.M.
 
Sorry for loss of your lifetime companion. Pray God will give you peace and comfort through all this. Dave
 
First off, thanks for the kind words. My family and Pastor are with me so I will somehow get by with this. Ray,, Where are you getting treatments? We got some localy and some in Lemmon/Holten in Grand Rapids. She did everything they asked and fought hard. I wish you luck and prayers. Bob
 
Sorry for loss of your Wife/Companion. I hope the days will get better for you.
May your faith support you at this time.
( words fail ) 44 years ! Me and my Wife still tell each other we owe the other at least 40 years. (Married late, only 7yrs now) Wish I had found her earlier then I did.
Andrew
 
Depest condolences. I don't even want to try to imagine what you're going through. So sorry.
 
BSpauld,

Words are so inadequate at a time like this, but for what it's worth, you have the deepest sympathies of my wife and me.

May the Lord bless you and keep you during this difficult time.

Tom in TN
 
Sorry for your loss. God has plans for each of us which we sometimes don"t understand. May He be with you in your time of grief and provide healing and comfort. God Bless
 
Prayers for comfort and strength for you, and your family.... Just remember we are all only passing through this world. and someday you will meet again.
 
When love ones become memories, memories become love ones. You have got it started, so keep those memories alive. Only they will live forever.
 
I know God will see you through it, with good Pastor and friends, will get easier after a while, ok to grieve, just natural, Mark
 
My sincere sympathy. Unless you experience that in your own life, You will never understand it.

July 9th will mark three years since I lost my wife to breast cancer, just 9 days short of our 47th anniversary. I fully understand your grief.

Still miss Her like crazy, but I'm lucky, like You to have a great family and many loving friends....and a lot of faith in God.

If You don't mind a tad of experienced advise:
After the ton of paper work that only adds to your grief in about a month or two, try to scrape a few nickels together and get outa the house. That place turns into a museum and only reminds you constantly of your loss. Go visit some far away friends or relitaves you haven't seen for a long time, and do some fun stuff like attending a tractor show in another state, it will give you a great new perspective on Your situation, and a much needed break from the sadness you have been living in.
My best to You, Larry NEIL
 
My wife of 46 years is the same. I can't imagin not having her by my side. My deepest reguards to you and hope that you will be able to recover and continue to find joy in your life.
Loren.
 
I am so sorry to hear your wife passed away. I pray God will help you through your sorrow and bring you comfort through many great memories of times you shared with her. God bless.
 
Life can go on!!!!

In 2010 I lost my wife of 48 years to a fatal heart attack. I remained on the farm and gave most of her things to charity. After several months of living alone, I decided that I was not a live alone person even though I am a loner of sorts.

I got to thinking about having a woman share the rest of my life and went online and joined eHarmony.com. Posted what I was and what I was looking for.

In the first 10 days I got 65 hits. Didn't take long to go through them but I stayed at it. I was totally out of practice on dealing with a new female companion, it was very awkward for me, but I stayed at it.

After about 3 months I started a dialogue with this little lady from a nearby rural town that, if I would have given her a 100 question test as to how she fit in with my aspirations, she would have made at least a 95. Don't know which 5 she would have missed.

We have been together now for over a year and a half and I am a new person. All my family and hers are thrilled that we have found each other and started a new life together. We just have fun together.

Some folks stay alone, some just have casual acquaintances and some go for the constant companion that they can fall in love with. On the time line, no one can dictate that to you. You have to call your own shots when they feel like the right thing to do. It is nobody's place to dictate to you how to spend the rest of your life. It is your decision and only yours.

I am sorry for your loss, but good luck and I wish you the best with the rest of your life.

Mark
 
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