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Bryce Frazier

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Anyone want to guess what Casey said to me last night at dinner???

Come on, guess?

No?

We were talking about this trip I am doing Monday, and that she would like to go, but isn't sure if she can due to her home schooling schedule. (I'll get back to you on that one)

Then she asked what I was doing later in the week. Told her that this next Friday, I was running up to Bonners to have dinner with the tractor club, and on the way I was looking at the 4 JD's I just bought (Again, I'll tell you about that one later!).

She kind of nodded and did the "Mmmmm" then she blurts out "Could I come with you????"

(pinch me..... RIGHT NOW....)
Bryce: YES! :)

I informed her that I would have to tromp around in the snow for a few minutes looking these JDs over real well, and then we would be off to dinner, she didn't care, actually sounded quite excited.....

Now I have GOT to get this girl on a machine! :)

Just for reference, she kicked my a$$ at Bowling too..... :)

Bryce
 
Hmmmm....

You are probably right there.... Mom traps me when ever I attempt to get to the cookie pot... :)

No worries, we still aren't anything serious, and I don't intend for it to be. I think that if anything the girl just needs someone to be a friend. I don't think that she ever leaves their little apartment during the day, and they rarely go an do things as a family (her and her mom).

We will see what happens. Right now I am just stoked to have a friend that likes all the things I do. It is just a perk that this friend happens to be a fine looking young woman! :)
 
Glad to hear the two of you are having fun together. Always good when the lady of your life shows an interest in old tractors! I hope things continue to go well for the two of you. Nothing wrong with being happy, just don't get in a rush. It will all work out for the best as long as you use your good sense and judgement. Yes, city girls can do well with old tractors and country living. I'm almost 36, and have been married to one for almost 13 years. We have three wonderful daughters and all my girls love country living. My two older daughters love to go with me to look at tractors and equipment, cows, crops, anything farm related. Enjoy this time of your life, it goes by really fast. Make decisions now you'll look back on with pride in the future.
 
Bryce,you are a lucky man. A woman that likes tractors ...... :) You chase em and they catch YOU! And there is NOTHING you can do about it! :)
 
It doesn't matter what your intentions are. If you're smitten enough,she'll have her way,simple as that. Take it from somebody who WAS married at 17.
 
yes they are ,, and changing their attitudes about likes and dislikes ,, movin furniture around , and monopolizing the conversation to direct only toward their life and problems ..and telling ya wants wrong with every thing and everyone ,lol ,. so be careful ... Bryce ,, because it is more miserable tolive without them.. try to understand the best guy that can get along with women best is one that
knows
he can live with out them ,, keeps the gAL ON HER TOES TRYINHHGG TO IMPRESS YOU SO SHE CAN SPRING HER TRP ,..
 
Sounds like fun.

She might be interested in you.

She might be interested in getting out and about.

She might have mild interest machinery even.

Maybe only one of the above, maybe all of the above.

Enjoy the trip.

Don't worry about the good natured trying to be funny replies you got. None of us are experts on this.

Its why we work on tractors - tractors are simple...... ;)

Paul
 
Oh ya, these ole geezers all have a warning to say...

Them saying that stuff will probably work out well, because now I have to make sure I don't screw up, other wise they would be able to say "I told ya so!" and has to be my LEAST favorite saying!

:)
 
Well Bryce: I have a few thoughts on this:

1) My first wife and I grew up together. I do mean together. We shared play pens as infants. We knew we were the other's soul mate. We married at 16. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. Another top one would be the birth of our first child two years later.

2) Become friends first. Then see if more develops.

3) Do not let passion over rule the friends first rule.

4) Enjoy life together for now. Your young and the odds of this girl being the "ONE" are slim but not impossible.

5) Until you have the book above memorized and all of the "updates" you just clueless like the rest of us. LOL
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Bryce

Read most of this thread and all of your posts on it.

You are going about this with the right attitude. Sounds to me like you have found someone who is as rare as the EssexTriDirectional tractor.

Just have fun and see where it goes from there.

jt
 
women cant live with em cant live with outem . your young whats your hurrry ? you would be better off restoring a few tractors now while you can lots of time for women in yeares to come
 
Why can't I get that lucky?.....Oh wait, I would rather bust rump on the farm then go hang with friends. That must be it. You hang on to that one Bryce, she's a catch.
 
Perfect position to take. well stated and thoughtful. The speed you are going is in line with your age. If neither of you try to teach, and both learn, the time will still go faster than you will think possible. Discovery after the fact is a common hindsight issue. Stay the course. If she is doing home schooling with an earnest heart, make time for her to do it well. It is the link for her to be a life long learner. Jim
 
Farm boy. You know what Norm on "Cheers" said.
"Women, can't live with them. UH, pass the beer nuts"
Richard
 
Must be you didn't read the post when he told about this girls background and upbringing. I'd love to be happy as a possum eating crap for him,but a girl who has lived a transient lifestyle,doesn't know who her father is,lives with a mother,sister and the sisters drug addict boyfriend? I just want to shake this boy and scream RUN!
Just as sure as women want a fixer upper,all men want to be Prince Charming and save the damsel in distress. It's nature. It's our need to protect. The more troubled they are,the more that instinct kicks in. I don't just say that as somebody who met a girl at 15,who had been to Woodstock and was from a troubled home,I say it as a father of two sons who were too sheltered and too nice to know what they were getting in to with troubled girls.
I PRAY this doesn't go as bad for Bryce as I fear it will,but I wasn't born yesterday.
I just hope he gets out of this in one piece so he can find a girl who doesn't need to be "rescued".
 
If she shows him her world it will be all over for him as he sounds already in full blown lust! BTDT

JMHO

Vito
 

We've all walked in your shoe's.. About the
only thing has changed is, you have a tool now
that can express your feelings online. You are
able to to read reply's pro & conn. Typing a
message on a PC is like talking outloud to your
self. What you reveal in words reveals your
hearts desire. The inner you..

Many of the men & women who read your words
really want the best for you. Many of us have
had the very same feelings & it would not matter
who said what because Love is Blind. You've read
& heard that short fraze befor, you are
becoming age where you'll have new understand
painfull Love can be...
It is OK that she wants to travel with you.
By doing this you are letting her into your
world. Also by doing this you are allowing
an tempoary avenue for her to escape her's.

My advice is to take baby steps, enjoy the
company. Be SMART, VERY VERY Smart. The rise
to the top of the world can be fast, but the
fall is much faster & at the bottom it hurts.
Believe me I know...
 
Bryce, you are getting a LOT of advice, some good some not so good. Let me add that what you are looking for is a partner NOT an opponent!
Many start as the first and change into the other.
 
rrlund!!! Gotta hand it to you.!Best post ever,but he won't hear it as, LOVE CONQUERS ALL. The girl has evolved into a life style she accepts. Wonder who in her clan HOME SCHOOLS HER???She is in the school of HARD KNOCKS and needs his company . IMHO he should print out your post and read it twice a day. as should some of these cow sick moonies who encourage such a relationship.
Your are one extremely levelheaded individual
who I'm afraid is casting pearls before the swine. but thanks for trying.
MOST WARMEST REGARDS
LOU.
 
"You are allowing a temporary avenue for her to escape hers." (her world). I was thinking along that line before I read your comment. Considering what Bryce has told us about her world, is she really that interested in what he is doing, or looking for a temporary escape from her world?
For Bryce's sake, I would sincerely hope that she is interested in his world. That is why it is so important to take it slow and easy. Take a long time to get to know someone before making any commitments. As many comments here bear witness, a lot of the folks here have experienced disappointing relationships, and we just don't want to see anyone else getting hurt.
 
MArk. I'll second that. Who really cares what some teeny bop per is involved with the love of his life(so-Far). Door is now opened for comments, but only if you have a dog in this fight. otherwise bug off. LOU
 
I really appreciate all of the nice comments, and am making notes of all the others for sure! :)

Just remember guys, just because some of you jumped off the bridge, doesn't mean that I will too.

Who knows, maybe I will screw up, but that will be my problem, and I will deal with it when it comes.

Like I said, right now I am just happy to have a friend, and think that she is too! If something more comes of it, great, if we just stay friends, great.

Remember, I am 16, not looking for my wife, not 100% sure I want a girlfriend yet, but we all get curious, and I thought that I would at least look into it!

Everything in life takes a little courage, and how will you ever know if it will turn into something good if you never try?

For me, life is to short to sit around and mope about my problems, yes, I have some, but every day is a new day, and that is the way I want to live!

I feel sorry for those of you that sit home, probably afraid of the world! Get out there! DO something! Maybe you will regret it, maybe it will cost you $100, but who cares, this is OUR life, why shouldn't we try to enjoy ever minute of it??

Thanks for the positive words guys!

Tomorrow is my big road trip, she is staying home, has some school to do... I'll have a picture of my H when I get home! :)

Bryce
 
(quoted from post at 16:01:33 01/25/15) Hmmmm....

You are probably right there.... Mom traps me when ever I attempt to get to the cookie pot... :)

No worries, we still aren't anything serious, and I don't intend for it to be. I think that if anything the girl just needs someone to be a friend. I don't think that she ever leaves their little apartment during the day, and they rarely go an do things as a family (her and her mom).

We will see what happens. Right now I am just stoked to have a friend that likes all the things I do. It is just a perk that this friend happens to be a fine looking young woman! :)
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t never starts serious just have fun be careful and take it slow!I must be honest sounds like it could get serious real quick and it all happens very,very fast.hang on the ride could get bumpy.
 
(quoted from post at 22:26:40 01/25/15) "You are allowing a temporary avenue for her to escape hers." (her world). I was thinking along that line before I read your comment. Considering what Bryce has told us about her world,[b:261df9364b][i:261df9364b] is she really that interested in what he is doing, OR [/b:261df9364b][/i:261df9364b]looking for a temporary escape from her world?
For Bryce's sake, I would sincerely hope that she is interested in his world. That is why it is so important to take it slow and easy. Take a long time to get to know someone before making any commitments. As many comments here bear witness, a lot of the folks here have experienced disappointing relationships, and we just don't want to see anyone else getting hurt.
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Thats what I was going to say. Bryce, remember, just because she wants to go, dont mean she is interested in the activity. Sad but true...
 
Nope RR I did read that post.

Bryce's replys in this thread especially told me he has his head on his shoulders. Esp "Don't forget "I'm pregnant"". Of course it was said in jest but shows Bryce knows what sort of trouble he can get into if he isn't using the head on his shoulders.

Hey everybody lets just give him some good FRIENDLY advice here.

jt
 
(quoted from post at 22:41:53 01/25/15)

Everything in life takes a little courage, and how will you ever know if it will turn into something good if you never try?

For me, life is to short to sit around and mope about my problems, yes, I have some, but every day is a new day, and that is the way I want to live!

I feel sorry for those of you that sit home, probably afraid of the world! Get out there! DO something! Maybe you will regret it, maybe it will cost you $100, but who cares, this is OUR life, why shouldn't we try to enjoy ever minute of it??

Bryce
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Thats a pretty good attitude Bryce, dont lose it. I dont think anybody is telling you not to live like that, just warning you of pitfalls they lived through and seen in others. Check your chute before you jump kind of thing.

Just remember that as you get older, you wont be just hearing people warn you of bad things that can happen in life, you will SEE people living it.... before they realize it was a mistake. Its rough to see. And sad. I could write a book using just some friends and classmates. With luck, and your line of thinking, it wont be you. Have fun but take it easy at the same time. Im glad you got somebody to hang out with, sounds like you are having a good time.
 
Bryce:

A small piece of friendly advice, from someone who learned the hard way.

She says she wants to go with you on these trips - if for some unforseen reason, a trip turns out to be an "overnighter" - make absolutely certain that you get SEPARATE motel rooms & NOT ADJOINING rooms. It will protect both YOUR REPUTATION & HERS. Gossip in rural areas travels almost as fast as it does on the Internet.

:>)
 
Bryce; I could not remember your age from before.
I was wondering if you were still in school. Are you also home schooled ? Are you or this girl using the online schooling ? Maybe you can study together ? or maybe you already have ?

Just be careful ,but most of all enjoy this time in your life !
 
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