It's hard to lose anyone. Really hard when it is a kid.Owner of the feed store where I work. Lost his grandson yesterday. Born with a bad heart. Never had a chance.
As JD said sometimes hard to understand what the plan is.My wife's last doctor told us. When ever he lost a kid in his care. He would go in his office and cry. Until he was able to face the mother.
JD is a good man with a good family. They will get through all of this. Take care JD.