Maybe ya" just gotta live in a true redneck area to get some respect! I buy quite a bit on line and I have never had a problem with FedEx, UPS, or the USPS with any package.
Of course, it would take real courage in this rural area to dump a breakable package over a fence, knowing the guy may be home and there isn"t any witnesses within a half-mile if he decides to "teach some manners" to the offending driver.
The only problem I have ever experienced was with DHL. Two years in a row, they were supposed to be delivering a large shipment of "expensive" Christmas cookies to me and, both times, they mysteriously disappeared and the driver insisting he delivered them (not likely, since I am generally at home 24 hrs a day.)