I have had two girlfriends since my wife died.
First one thought she could eat and sleep while I did all the work.
Second one thought that I should report everything I do. To her every evening.Then she would tell who I could talk to and how much I could spend. She had no job.
Helped both of them pack the bags and waved goodby as they drove down the street. Looking for another sucker. You should do the same.