Hello, I have gotten a lot of good out of this
site for the information and advice within it. I
have learned from others problems but now I have a
problem of my own: I was going out with a girl
last winter but after awhile we (she) decided we
should be just friends. She was getting back
together with an old boyfriend. Throughout the
summer we became closer friends and have relied on
one another for advice and support, mostly
everyday issues. She broke up with her boyfriend
and within a month I asked her out again. She got
very upset and said she wanted to date other guys.
However, she gets upset that when we are together
I don"t hold her or try to be affectionate. To me
it seems she wants the best to both worlds and I
am not comfortable with her flirting with and
texting other guys when we are together. I really
care a lot about her but it seems like she has
lost interest, though she says she sees a future
with me. By the way she is 23 and I am nearly 30.
Is anyone familiar with a similar situation, and
how did you/ would you handle it? Thanks!
site for the information and advice within it. I
have learned from others problems but now I have a
problem of my own: I was going out with a girl
last winter but after awhile we (she) decided we
should be just friends. She was getting back
together with an old boyfriend. Throughout the
summer we became closer friends and have relied on
one another for advice and support, mostly
everyday issues. She broke up with her boyfriend
and within a month I asked her out again. She got
very upset and said she wanted to date other guys.
However, she gets upset that when we are together
I don"t hold her or try to be affectionate. To me
it seems she wants the best to both worlds and I
am not comfortable with her flirting with and
texting other guys when we are together. I really
care a lot about her but it seems like she has
lost interest, though she says she sees a future
with me. By the way she is 23 and I am nearly 30.
Is anyone familiar with a similar situation, and
how did you/ would you handle it? Thanks!