I have had elderly relatives to take care of the last 5-7 years and am just beat.
My mother had heart disease and was in/out of ICU for 3 years until she passed away 2 years ago. My dad had a stroke about 2 months before my mom passed away that left him with judgement issues. We had to put my dad in assisted living after my mom died, which I think he hated me for for 2 years. He then fell and got a brain hemorrage which left him down for 2 months until he passed.
My aunt and uncle, which have no kids, are getting stalked by a former caregiver. We cannot do anything about it because they are still in charge of their affairs. They have about 1 day out of 2 when they are coherent. I just got in a fight with the stalker, and my aunt is taking her side. It is frustrating when they are able to make most decisions, but cannot see this. I do not want to fight for competency.
Thanks
My mother had heart disease and was in/out of ICU for 3 years until she passed away 2 years ago. My dad had a stroke about 2 months before my mom passed away that left him with judgement issues. We had to put my dad in assisted living after my mom died, which I think he hated me for for 2 years. He then fell and got a brain hemorrage which left him down for 2 months until he passed.
My aunt and uncle, which have no kids, are getting stalked by a former caregiver. We cannot do anything about it because they are still in charge of their affairs. They have about 1 day out of 2 when they are coherent. I just got in a fight with the stalker, and my aunt is taking her side. It is frustrating when they are able to make most decisions, but cannot see this. I do not want to fight for competency.
Thanks