It all depends upon if the utility can and will connect your house to 3-phase power, and what the cost will be to install and what the monthly surcharge for 3-phase (if any), and what you are actually needing/willing to pay for.
That's who to ask FIRST.
Also, there are variations in voltage details depending upon if you would be served by a wye or delta 3-phase system.
Also, typically there is a TREMENDOUS difference in the cost of the actual main breaker panel between a common (and CHEAP) single-phase panel and a 3-phase panel. And, each individual 3-phase breaker AIN'T CHEAP!
Probably THOUSANDS of $$$ difference in the total installed prices of a common residential single-phase panel and a 3-phase panel and a handful of 3-phase breakers.