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It sounds like you want not only a commercial quality door, but one that is far higher security than anything that is standard even on the commercial level. There is nothing wrong with that mind you, its just it limits your options because its rare. Rare equals not alot of people sell what you are looking for.
What you want can be built though. As for the pry bar part, it would be very difficult and time consuming to pry an out swinging door open, even using common quality parts. Just try it, it aint easy. Heck, just pulling a concrete filled door frame out (using a chop saw to cut each side) takes a good 20 minutes. You are not going to open the door in less time than that, well I take that back, you can if you have a jaws-of-life. If a bad guy comes with a jaws-of-life and you are not home to stop him, he is in anyway. But thats all unlikely because there are much easier ways into your home, most notibly is just driving a hole in it with a car.
In any case, if you are shooting for a dead bolt that throws both ways in a heavy frame, your best bet would be to custom make one. You can get inspiration from the various survivial websites out there as well as how safes are built with multiple bolts. Some of survival guys build cobbled up messes but there are some real builders out there as well. Here is one website I have seen some cool things, Im sure there are others. http://www.survivalistboards.com/forumdisplay.php?f=120