Doesn't matter how you raise them. My buddy has 3 kids, oldest is 46, youngest is 35. All raised the same way I raised my kid: "If you eat here, you work here". Well, all 3 of his kids are just fine responsible adults & parents, but only one of them will work a garden or do yard work.
Same w/ my daughter. She keeps the house clean but the yard would look like a jungle if the son-in-law wasn't around!